Knowing vs actioning love, which one is your style?

Are you a man who says even if i dont say or do anything she knows that i love her?. Or you are a woman who says ‘he is a man he is not concerned about me showing him love’. Many marriages have become boring and stressful because couples are holding on to words and actions of love they were shown some time ago or even years ago. What about now? What about today? Love is a doing word, there is no way a relationship can be sustained by a belief based on past tense. Imagine what happens if you plant a seed and you don’t water it, it will surely die! The same as the love we have for each other, if we have come together because of love and as time goes on we forget to nurture it with actions, it will die and marital problems will increase. In relationships, there is need for reassurance , you need to say it and action it. Your partner can only be confident that they are loved when there are are actions to prove it. It is good to hold on to lovely memories you had in the past however if past memories is all we have that could mean the love has faded away or it’s no longer there. Say it and action it constantly. Do not keep love inside your heart, give it away!

When last did you tell your partner you love them, when last did you do any act to show love, when last did you show affection (hug,kiss, rub, massage etc) There are so many ways to show love, you just have to find which one your partner prefers most and get into the mode of practice. Remember love isn’t love until it’s given away.

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